A tragic story unfolding across Ghanaian and European social media spaces has reignited global conversations about trust, paternity fraud, and men’s mental health. A Ghanaian man based in Denmark reportedly took his own life after discovering through a DNA test that none of the four children he raised during a 19-year marriage were biologically his.
The incident, which occurred in Copenhagen, has drawn emotional reactions from thousands online and raised difficult questions about relationship transparency, emotional trauma, and the lack of support systems for men facing personal crises.
What Happened
The deceased, identified as Benjamin Offei, was living in Copenhagen at the time of the incident. Reports indicate that Offei had been married for nearly two decades, during which time he fathered and financially supported four children with his wife, who resided in Ghana.
According to accounts circulating online, Offei had been in a long-distance marriage after relocating to Denmark for work. At some point, he reportedly decided to conduct a DNA test. The results allegedly revealed that none of the four children were biologically related to him.
Shortly after the discovery, Offei was found dead in his garage. While Danish authorities have not released an official public statement confirming details of the case, friends and relatives described the incident as suicide linked to emotional distress caused by the DNA results.
Emotional Fallout and Family Reactions
Friends and family members described Offei as deeply affected by the discovery, noting that the revelation shattered his sense of identity, fatherhood, and trust built over nearly 20 years.
Those close to him said the pain was compounded by the fact that he had invested emotionally and financially in the children, believing them to be his. The shock, they said, came without adequate emotional or psychological support to help him process the discovery.
Calls have since emerged from relatives and advocates urging society to take men’s emotional struggles more seriously, particularly in cases involving betrayal and family breakdown.
Social Media Reactions
The story quickly went viral, sparking intense debates online about paternity testing, marriage, and accountability.
Some users called for mandatory DNA testing at birth to prevent similar situations:
“They should make DNA tests compulsory in hospitals immediately after childbirth to curtail all these paternity fraud cases,” one user wrote.
Others questioned why the tests were done after four children, while some condemned suicide and urged stronger mental health awareness.
The reactions ranged from sympathy and grief to anger, blame, and broader calls for policy reforms around paternity verification.
Why This Matters
Beyond its tragic nature, this case highlights several critical societal issues:
- Mental Health and Men: Men are often discouraged from expressing emotional vulnerability. Sudden revelations involving betrayal can trigger severe psychological distress, especially when support systems are weak or absent.
- Paternity Fraud and Trust: The case has renewed debate around paternity fraud and whether early verification should be encouraged to avoid long-term emotional damage.
- Diaspora and Long-Distance Families: Many African families live apart due to migration. Distance can complicate trust, communication, and accountability within relationships.
- Suicide Awareness: The incident underscores the importance of early mental health intervention and crisis support, especially after life-altering discoveries.
Experts warn that while DNA testing can reveal the truth, the emotional impact of such revelations must be handled carefully, ideally with counseling and professional guidance.
Calls for Awareness and Support
Advocates have called for:
- Increased access to mental health services for men
- Public education on coping mechanisms during family crises
- Responsible handling of sensitive information like DNA results
- Stronger emphasis on dialogue, counseling, and mediation in marital disputes
Mental health professionals stress that no discovery, however painful, should be faced alone or without support.
What Happens Next
As the story continues to circulate, attention is turning toward how communities, governments, and families can prevent similar tragedies. While investigations into the incident may remain private under Danish law, the broader social impact is already evident.
For many, Benjamin Offei’s death is not just a personal tragedy, but a warning about the silent emotional battles many people fight behind closed doors.
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