Popular social media activist Verydarkman (VDM) has finally reacted after reality TV star Phyna referred to him as “Very Dirty Boy” and blamed him for the collapse of her relationship with Nollywood actress Iyabo Ojo.
Phyna had earlier claimed that her association with VeryDarkMan was the major reason she fell out with Iyabo Ojo, a statement that immediately sparked controversy and intense debate across social media.
VDM Breaks Silence: “My Support Was Genuine”
In a lengthy response shared publicly, VeryDarkMan expressed disappointment at Phyna’s remarks, insisting that his support for her was consistent, genuine, and never transactional.
According to him, he stood by Phyna at several stages of her journey, including:
- Reposting and promoting her movie projects
- Offering career and brand advice
- Assisting with paid collaborations
- Listening to her personal and family-related issues
VDM stated that whenever Phyna reached out, he was always available, often putting aside his own time to help her without expecting anything in return.
“What Exactly Did I Gain?” — VDM Questions the Fallout
VeryDarkMan questioned what he personally benefitted from the relationship, stressing that his actions were driven by goodwill and loyalty, not clout or personal interest.
He further suggested that greed and poor personal decisions eventually damaged the relationship and contributed to Phyna’s loss of public goodwill. According to him, many people who once promoted and defended her have since stepped back as the spotlight around her faded.
Subtle Dig at Past Controversies
VDM also referenced a past controversy involving Phyna, implying that unresolved issues and misjudgments played a major role in the breakdown of several relationships around her — not just his own.
He maintained that he was unfairly turned into a scapegoat for problems that had deeper roots.
A Calm Ending Despite the Drama
Despite the sharp tone of his response, VeryDarkMan ended on a surprisingly calm note, stating that he harbors no ill will toward Phyna.
He added that he genuinely wishes her well and hopes she finds peace and clarity moving forward.
Online Reactions
The exchange has since divided social media users. While some applauded VDM for defending himself with receipts and clarity, others felt Phyna was justified in sharing her side of the story.
One thing is clear:
This fallout has reopened old wounds and exposed tensions fans never saw coming.
